Friday, December 22, 2023

The handmaid's tale

 



I’m of the opinion that book bans are foolish, and I went into the reasons why in my post of January 30, 2022.

https://tohell-andback.blogspot.com/2022/01/

Two of the many books that are banned are “Slaughterhouse Five” and “The Handmaid’s Tale”. “Slaughterhouse 5” was the class project in an English class I was monitoring recently, and “The Atlantic” recently published an interview with Margaret Atwood, who explained her thought process about “The Handmaid’s Tale.

Naturally, I put both of them on hold at the local library, and “The Handmaid’s Tale” came in this morning.




The irony of “The Handmaid’s Tale” is that the states where women are more likely to live lives depicted in the book are more likely to ban the book, and Texas (which has banned the most books) is the poster child for this phenomenon. (The state has banned 801 books in 22 districts).

You’re likely aware of the story of Kate Cox, whose story is posted below:

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2023/dec/12/texas-abortion-ken-paxton-kate-cox

 

When a Texas court ruled that a 31-year-old woman with a non-viable pregnancy could have an abortion despite the state’s strict bans, the Texas attorney general, Ken Paxton, responded with a brazen threat to prosecute “hospitals, doctors, or anyone else” who would assist in providing the procedure. The letter he sent Texas hospitals hours after the ruling, threatening first-degree felonies that could result in life in prison, was a “stunning” move indicative of his longstanding crusade to criminalize abortion care, say legal experts and advocates.

 “It is extraordinary that Paxton would threaten hospitals and doctors with this letter before even winning an appeal,” Mary Ziegler, a UC-Davis law professor who focuses on reproductive rights, told the Guardian. “It’s a very unusual maneuver, but does certainly reflect his ultimate goal of wanting to go after abortion providers and supporters at all costs.”

 After Paxton sent his menacing letter to Texas hospitals, the state petitioned the all-Republican Texas supreme court to block the ruling allowing Kate Cox to access an abortion in Texas. On Friday, the state’s highest court temporarily halted the lower court order that had allowed Cox to receive emergency abortion care, before ruling on Monday to vacate the order that would have permitted her to get care in her home state.

 With a risky pregnancy that threatened her health, Cox waited nearly three days for the court to issue a final order. On Monday, hours before the final order from the court, she finally fled out-of-state for abortion care at 20 weeks pregnant.

Cox’s attorneys called Paxton’s strategy a “fearmongering” tactic and an effort to “bulldoze the legal system” to ensure Cox continued to suffer.

Her case underscores the aggressive nature of the state’s top attorney when it comes to not only enforcing a ban on abortion even in dire circumstances, but creating a climate of fear around abortion that targets providers.

“Ken Paxton was trying to say who the judge’s emergency order protected or didn’t protect – but he doesn’t actually have the authority to do that,” said Joanna Grossman, professor at the Southern Methodist University Dedman School of Law in Dallas. “His behavior here is a continuation of what he’s been doing for the past three years and beyond – and that is enforcement through fear. His MO is to make threats, be a bully, and scare people and providers out of abortion access. The actual legal rules aren’t as important to him.”

Backed by the state’s major anti-abortion groups, Paxton has cemented himself as a staunch anti-abortion advocate since his tenure as a Texas house and senate representative, and even more so as attorney general starting in 2015, from which position he has zealously litigated against abortion rights and openly celebrated the fall of Roe v Wade.

 

Paxton’s support and defense of 2021’s Senate Bill 8 – a near-total abortion ban that empowers private citizens to sue those who “aid or abet” care – helped create a chilling effect among abortion providers, who stopped providing care months before the Dobbs decision that overturned Roe, out of fear of threats to their livelihoods. The attorney general has also successfully sued the Biden administration to fight against protections for Texas physicians who perform abortions in emergency circumstances.

And his office is currently battling a legal challenge that seeks to clarify the medical exceptions in Texas abortion law for doctors who say that the law is so vague that their hands are tied even in major emergencies.

 

Filed by 20 women who have faced often severe pregnancy complications – including near-death circumstances – as a result of being denied emergency abortions, the case is now before the Texas supreme court, which granted Paxton’s recent appeal.

 

In 2022, shortly after the US supreme court’s reversal of Roe v Wade and a month before a law banning abortions in almost all circumstances was slated to take effect in Texas, Paxton began to sharpen his aim at providers by issuing an advisory encouraging – and vowing assistance to – local prosecutors who pursue criminal charges against abortion doctors with a potential prison sentence of up to five years, writing that providers could be immediately held “criminally liable”, under an antiquated Texas statute.

 

“It was a shot across the bow to abortion doctors and supporters,” said Blake Rocap, director of the Sissy Farenthold Reproductive Justice Defense Project at the Rapoport Center for Human Rights and Justice at the UT-School of Law. “Historically, Paxton’s been a foot soldier in the march to criminalizing care. That’s been the aim all along for him.”

Dr Ghazaleh Moayedi can speak directly to experiencing fear of prosecution by Paxton. Along with a number of abortion funds, she filed suit against Paxton last year to obtain legal protections after the attorney general indicated he could prosecute people who help Texans access abortions out of state. At the time, Moayedi, who had been traveling to states like Kansas to provide abortion care after Texas’s law took effect, stopped seeing patients from Texas, because she was frightened by the threat of possible jail time.

 

“The state has been coordinating these efforts against us for a long time,” she said in reference to Cox’s case. “It is exhausting to be constantly vigilant, especially when I know I’m a good doctor. The case reminds us that we could still be put in the crosshairs. It continues to worry me.”

  

Ken Paxton’s 61st birthday is tomorrow. If I knew his address, I would send him a dead fish wrapped in a newspaper to help him celebrate his day.




 

Back to “The Handmaid’s Tale” ….

 

Here is Margaret Atwood’s full interview in “The Atlantic”

“It’s shunning time in Madison County, Virginia, where the school board recently banished my novel The Handmaid’s Tale from the shelves of the high-school library. I have been rendered “unacceptable.” Governor Glenn Youngkin enabled such censorship last year when he signed legislation allowing parents to veto teaching materials they perceive as sexually explicit.

This episode is perplexing to me, in part because my book is much less sexually explicit than the Bible, and I doubt the school board has ordered the expulsion of that. Possibly, the real motive lies elsewhere. The conservative Christian group Focus on the Family generated the list of “unacceptable” books that reportedly inspired the school board’s action, and at least one member of the public felt the school board was trying to “limit what kids can read” based on religious views. Could it be that the board acted under the mistaken belief that The Handmaid’s Tale is anti-Christian?

The truth is that the inspiration for The Handmaid’s Tale is in part biblical: “Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves” (Matthew 7:15). The novel sets an inward faith and core Christian values—which I take to be embodied in the love of neighbor and the forgiveness of sins—against totalitarian control and power-hoarding cloaked in a supposed religiousness that is mostly based on the earlier scriptures in the Bible. The stealing of women for reproductive purposes and the appropriation of their babies appears in Genesis 30, when Rachel and Leah turn their “handmaids” over to Jacob and then claim the children as their own. My novel is also an exploration of the theoretical question “What kind of a totalitarianism might the United States become?” I suggest we’re beginning to see the real-life answer to that query.

Read: The banned books you haven’t heard about

Wittingly or otherwise, the Madison County school board has now become part of the centuries-old wrangling over who shall have control of religious texts and authority over what they mean. In its early-modern form, this power struggle goes back to the mid-15th-century appearance of the Gutenberg printing press, which allowed a wider dissemination of printed materials, including Bibles.

The Church had good reason for wanting to limit Bible-reading (in Latin) to the clergy. Limbo and purgatory weren’t in it, nor was the catalog of saints or the notion of marriage as a sacrament, among other key teachings. But John Wycliffe, William Tyndale, and their continental counterparts translated the Bible into vernacular languages and enabled cheap copies of it to be printed. As people learned to read in ever larger numbers, they read the Bible, and the result was a proliferation of different interpretations. Baptists, Lutherans, Calvinists, Presbyterians, Mennonites, and Methodists are all the descendants of this biblical big bang. Approximately three centuries of bitter and destructive religious wars followed, as well as massacres, excommunications, widespread heresy trials, witchcraft panics, and burnings at the stake, with the usual nasty human-warfare raping, looting, and pillaging stuff thrown in.

 

That’s one reason the authors of the United States Constitution framed the First Amendment as they did. It stipulates that Congress shall not make any law that establishes a state religion or prohibits the free exercise of an individual’s own faith. Who wanted the homicidal uproar that had gone on in Europe for so long?

That uproar resulted from the collision between an old establishment and a new communication technology. All such collisions are disruptive, especially at first, when the new technology bears an aura of magic and revelation. Would Adolf Hitler have had the same impact without radio? As for film, it was such a powerful and potentially bad influence on the masses that it inspired Hollywood’s Hays Code. This list of prohibitions was very long, and included depictions of mixed-race marriages and scenes in which a man and a woman were shown in bed together, even if married. (This last produced a boom in twin-bed sales, because viewers got the idea that this was the norm in a marriage.)

The effort to control lurid comic books came next. Donald Duck was one thing; crime and horror were quite another. The latter included much material that was banned under the Hays Code, and teens of my generation read them avidly. On-screen, Singin’ in the Rain; under the bed, Tales From the Crypt. Series such as Crime Does Not Pay were said to encourage juvenile delinquency, not to mention racism. Some of these comics were certainly traumatizing: Will I ever recover from the slimy, toothy monster rising out of the eerie lagoon? Probably not.

Then along came television. Marshall McLuhan, pioneer of media studies, said that John F. Kennedy won his debates against Richard Nixon thanks to TV: Nixon’s 5 o’clock shadow didn’t transmit well. Then there was Elvis the Pelvis and his Ed Sullivan Show appearance, which encouraged widespread rock and rolling. I was 16 at the time, and therefore right in the middle of that particular frenzy. Later, the televising of anti-Vietnam protest rallies and riots sparked more of them, giving us the ’60s. And today, it’s the internet and social-media platforms—so disruptive!

Add streaming services, which permit written works too long and complex to be squashed easily into a 90-minute film to appear as ongoing series. One of these is The Handmaid’s Tale. So, yes, today’s self-appointed moral gatekeepers can exclude my novel from school libraries, thus making it impossible for students who can’t afford to buy it to read it for free—but as for shutting down the story completely, I’m afraid that horse has left the barn. Has anyone told Madison County about BookTok? That’s the part of TikTok where young people recommend books to one another. Added together, hashtags of my name and The Handmaid’s Tale have about 400 million BookTok mentions. Sorry about that.

I did intend my book for adult readers, who would recognize totalitarianism when they saw it. But it’s very hard to control what young people get their hands on, especially if they’re told something is too old for them, or too evil, or too immoral. What was I doing reading Peyton Place on top of the garage roof when I was 16? Incest! Rape! Varicose veins! The incest and the rape weren’t news to me—they were in the Bible—but varicose veins? The Bible says nothing about them, so that was a shocker.

Here, I would point out that attempts to control media content are as likely to come from the so-called left as from the so-called right, each side claiming to act in the name of the public good. Stalin’s U.S.S.R. and Mao’s China went in for a mind-boggling level of censorship, but it was all for “the people,” and who could be against that? Or against the protection of the innocent? Sometimes, these things get started out of a genuine need and concern, but a takeover by some bureaucratic version of the Inquisition is very likely to follow. Most of us are more easily manipulated by our desire to do good, or to be seen to do good, than by the temptation to do evil, at least in public view. Hence “virtue signaling.”

Freedom of expression is a hot potato—freedom for whom and for what, and who decides? The last English writer before the late 20th century to have totally free rein was Geoffrey Chaucer. Few then could read, and books were hand-lettered and very expensive, so Chaucer could diss the clergy, use four-letter words and religious swearing, and describe salacious and ribald incidents, because his work would have no effect on the body politic. However, by the time of Shakespeare’s theater—an early mass-entertainment medium—a state censor had been installed. That’s why Shakespeare’s characters have to be so inventive with their cursing, and why so many plays are set in the past, and in distant locations such as Venice. This trend continued: The licensing of plays and books in the name of public morality explains much about the 19th-century novel. Sex by implication, but not on the page. Officially, no obscenity, no sedition, no blasphemy. Nothing that would bring a blush to the cheek of an innocent maiden (though there was a great deal of illicit porn).

Which brings us back to Christianity and the supposed bias against it in The Handmaid’s TaleChristianity is now so broad a term that it means little. Are we talking about Greek Orthodoxy? Antinomianism? Mormonism? Liberation theology? The Salvation Army, dedicated to helping the helpless? Sojourners, a social-fairness movement? A Rocha, an eco-organization that is firmly Christian? (I happen to be a fan of these last two.) Incidentally, Jesus is not particularly pro-family. “If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple” (Luke 14:26). That’s a difficulty for any pro-family Christian group, you must admit. (Should these words of Jesus be censored? Just wondering.)

Should parents have a say in what their kids are taught in public schools? Certainly: a democratic vote on the matter. Should young people—high-school juniors and seniors, for starters—also have a say? Why not? In many states, if they’re over 16, they can be married (with parental approval); if of reproductive age, which might be 10, they can give birth, and may be forced to. So why should they, too, not be allowed an opinion?

The outward view of the Madison County school board is that people ages 16 to 18 are too young to explore such questions. I don’t know what its inner motives may be. Possibly, it has a public-spirited aim. It may have noted the falling birth rate and the surveys showing that young people are losing interest in sex. No sex equals no babies, unless everyone resorts to test tubes. Has sex become too readily available? Banal, even? A boring chore? If so, what better way to make it fascinating again than to prohibit all mention of it? Don’t read about sex! Don’t think about sex! See no sex, hear no sex, speak no sex! Suddenly, the kids want to explore! “Stolen water is sweet, and bread eaten in secret is pleasant” (Proverbs 9:17). If that’s the school board’s game, well played! Virginia may even get more babies out of it.

How dare I question the school board’s motives? I do dare. After all, it has questioned mine."

https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2023/02/margaret-atwood-handmaids-tale-virginia-book-ban-library-removal/673013/

Well said, Margaret.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Tuesday, December 19, 2023

Notre Dame

 

 

When translated from French to English, “Notre Dame” becomes “Our Lady”, which is what inspired a column by Michael Sean Winters in Monday’s edition of the National Catholic Reporter.

https://www.ncronline.org/opinion/ncr-voices/why-pope-francis-should-attend-reopening-notre-dame

Rather than summarizing it, I’m simply going to post the entire article below:

 French President Emmanuel Macron said he would be inviting Pope Francis to attend the reopening of Paris' famed Notre Dame Cathedral. It will be a singular moment for Parisians and all French people, but also for millions of Christians worldwide. I hope the pope goes.

Many of us can recall that horrible April day in 2019 when fire engulfed the venerable cathedral. I remember getting a call from a friend to turn on the TV. All the cable networks had suspended their regular programming to watch as the fire grew and spread.

"As the flames leapt higher and higher, it seemed like a darkness was descending upon the spirit of all who have worshiped within the walls of the cathedral at the heart of Paris," I wrote at the time. "After the ancient roof had come crashing down to the floor, like a clap of evil thunder, silence and sorrow seemed the only thing anyone could manage." 

It was like Tenebrae, the medieval liturgical monument that is celebrated on the evening before the Triduum. 

Why did that tragic event so capture the imagination of the world? 

Our powerful emotions of pain and loss when Notre Dame burned were the mirror image of the emotions of love and devotion for the Mother of God. Notre Dame was her cathedral.

Partly because we humans identify our sense of our humanity with specific places. We observe this in the liturgical calendar when we celebrate the feast of the Dedication of St. John Lateran on Nov. 9. We witness it in the tenacity with which people resist the closing of a much-loved parish, because we associate that space with the great events of our families' lives: baptism, first Communion, marriage and funerals. We hear it in the music of Anton Bruckner's astonishing motet "Locus iste," sung here by the Cathedral Choral Scholars of Salford Cathedral. 

Partly because we felt that something not only beautiful but spiritually powerful was being destroyed. Through the centuries, the prayers of pilgrims had softened the stone arches and columns, imparting the sense of the sacred to the fabric of the structure that was palpable the moment you walked into the nave. 

Partly, too, because this monument to the faith had lasted for so long, and our modern buildings, like so many of our modern ideas, are not built to last. We unconsciously worried that it might be impossible to recapture what the builders in the 12th and 13th centuries had captured, and that with the destruction of the building in which God had been worshiped for so long, the worship itself might be diminished. 

If Notre Dame proved to be fragile, might not our faith be broken, too, amid the many destructive fires of our times?

Mostly, however, our powerful emotions of pain and loss when Notre Dame burned were the mirror image of the emotions of love and devotion for the Mother of God. Notre Dame was her cathedral. It was the cathedral of Paris and the Parisians only to the extent that it was first her cathedral, and on account of their centuries of turning to her in their need. Mary, hope of Christians. Mary, refuge of sinners. Mary, untier of knots. Mary, seat of wisdom. Mary, comfort of the afflicted. 

When I visited Paris last February, I walked by the site and as I approached, I thought: This is the first time I have been in Paris and not gone to say a prayer in front of the statue of the Blessed Mother that stood to the right of the main altar. As I walked around the construction fencing to the square in front of the church, my heart leapt when I saw that they had placed that statue, which was not destroyed by the fire, on a column in the square. 

I, we, everyone could still look upon her enigmatic expression and murmur the words, "Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee."

 

If you are a student of history, you ay remember that all of the churches in France built prior to 1905 actually belong to the country of France, rather than the respective religious organizations, such as the archdiocese of Paris.

In American, our Founding Fathers felt that church and state should always be separate – and they put that idea into our constitution.

Ironically, France is a decidedly secular country, but it’s impossible to separate church from state because the state OWNS a lot of church.

The history of this ancient cathedral makes for interesting reading, which you can read at the link below:

 

https://tohell-andback.blogspot.com/2019/04/we-are-all-french_19.html

 

Repairing the church is a massive project, but is appears at this point that it will be finished at some point prior to the 2024 Olympics, which will be held in Paris.

Total cost of the renovation will be bumping up against the $1 billion mark, with the exact amount estimated to be $865 million.

If you are wondering where the money is coming from, here’s the answer:

 



Since April 15, 2019, more than €846 million has been received from over 340,000 patrons and donors from 150 countries, The total includes €200 million from Bernard Arnault, LVMH chairman and CEO, and €100 million from François Pinault, chairman and CEO of Kering and owner of Christie’s. 

With an estimated net worth of $211 billion, Arnault is the richest man in the world.

https://www.google.com/search?q=how+much+will+the+repair+of+notre+dame+cost&rlz=1C1GCCA_enUS1089US1089&oq=how+much+will+the+repair+of+notre+dame+cost&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOTIHCAEQIRirAjIKCAIQIRgWGB0YHjIKCAMQIRgWGB0YHjIKCAQQIRgWGB0YHjIKCAUQIRgWGB0YHtIBCTIwNzg1ajBqN6gCALACAA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8&safe=active&ssui=on

Around the world, there are numerous churches that are shutting down because it no longer makes economic sense to maintain them. St. Brendan’s parish in Boston is just one example.

https://tohell-andback.blogspot.com/2022/04/easter-at-st-brendans.html

 

Does it make sense to spend close to $1 billion on a religious building that is over 900 years old?

In view of the fact that Notre Dame is a symbol of France, the most visited country in the world, the answer is definitely “yes”

 

 

 

         

 

 

 


Sunday, December 17, 2023

the seven year itch

 



The seven-year itch is a popular belief, sometimes quoted as having psychological backing, that happiness in a marriage or long-term romantic relationship declines after around seven years.

The phrase was used in the title of the play The Seven Year Itch by George Axelrod, and gained popularity following the 1955 film adaptation starring Marilyn Monroe and Tom Ewell. In his 1913 novel, The Eighth YearPhilip Gibbs attributes the concept to the British judge Sir Francis Jeune.

The phrase has since expanded to indicate cycles of dissatisfaction not only in interpersonal relationships, but in any situation, such as working a full-time job or buying a house, where a decrease in happiness and satisfaction is often seen over long periods of time.

The original meaning, prior to Axelrod's play, referred to scabies or skin disease. The phrase "seven-year itch" was used in this sense by Henry David Thoreau in Walden in 1854 and Carl Sandburg in 1936 in The People. Yes.

Divorce rates

The idea of a seven-year itch puts a specific time on the generally observed phenomenon that data sets of married people show a rising, then a falling, risk of divorce over time. However, statistical results from these data sets are very sensitive to the statistical methods used, and such patterns may just reflect the method, rather than any underlying reality.

In samples taken from the U.S. National Center for Health Statistics, there proves to be an average median duration of marriage across time. In 1922, the median duration of marriage that ended in divorce was 6.6 years. In 1974, the median duration was 7.5 years. In 1990, the median duration was 7.2 years. While these can fluctuate from year to year, the averages stay relatively close to the seven-year mark. Research from 2012 found that American divorce rates peaked after about ten to 12 years.

Studies from China of marriages between 1980 and 2010 found that divorce rates peaked anywhere from 5 years to 10 years after marriage, with more recent marriages (post-2000) being more likely to divorce after shorter periods of time.

Divorce rates in Finland as of 2018 show similar patterns, "consistent with psychological notions of ‘honeymoon’ and ‘seven-year itch’."

Media influences

The modern usage of the phrase gained popularity following the 1955 movie of the same name starring Marilyn Monroe. In the film, a man sends his family off on vacation for the summer while he stays back to work. He begins to fantasize about women that he previously had feelings for, when his new neighbor moves in and he decides to try and seduce her. Things go awry and he ends up not going through with it, but he believes that his wife will somehow know that he is trying to be unfaithful.

Whilst the term was originally used for unfavorable conditions of a long duration, the film helped to popularize its usage to refer to the decrease of romantic feelings between married couples over time. The phrase has become so popular that some couples use it as an indicator of the lifespan of their marriage, an example being a Bavarian politician, Gabriele Pauli, who has been divorced twice. She suggests after seven years marriage should end, with the couple required to repeat their vows if they wish to continue for another seven years.

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_seven-year_itch

 

Sharon and I were married in 1972, so 1979 was the mark of the seven-year itch.

We celebrated by having another child, a girl. Ironically, she and her spouse just celebrated THEIR year anniversary yesterday.

 

They celebrated their anniversary by taking a trip on the Durango to Silverton railway.




If you would like to take the same trip they took, just click on the link below:

 

Riding the historic Durango & Silverton Narrow Gauge Railroad in Colorado 🚂 (Cascade Canyon Express) (youtube.com)

Saturday, November 25, 2023

American pie

 

"American Pie" is a song by American singer and songwriter Don McLean. Recorded and released in 1971 on the album of the same name, the single was the number-one US hit for four weeks in 1972 starting January 15 after just eight weeks on the US Billboard charts (where it entered at number 69).

The repeated phrase "the day the music died" refers to a plane crash in 1959 that killed early rock and roll stars Buddy HollyThe Big Bopper, and Ritchie Valens, ending the era of early rock and roll; this became the popular nickname for that crash. The theme of the song goes beyond mourning McLean's childhood music heroes, reflecting the deep cultural changes and profound disillusion and loss of innocence of his generation – the early rock and roll generation – that took place between the 1959 plane crash and either late 1969 or late 1970. The meaning of the other lyrics, which cryptically allude to many of the jarring events and social changes experienced during that period, has been debated for decades. McLean repeatedly declined to explain the symbolism behind the many characters and events mentioned; he eventually released his songwriting notes to accompany the original manuscript when it was sold in 2015, explaining many of these, and further elaborated on the lyrical meaning in a 2022 interview/documentary celebrating the song's 50th anniversary, in which he stated the song was driven by impressionism and debunked some of the more widely speculated symbols.

 It’s a great song, and worth listening to again:

 (3) Don McLean - American Pie (Lyrics) - YouTube

 In 2010, the RAGBRAI passed through Clear Lake, Iowa. Naturally, Sharon and I went  to the ballroom where Buddy Holly last performed – and we also went to the cornfield where he died. As a result, we have a stronger personal connection to the song, since we have been to “the scene of the crime”.



 I recently discovered that we also have a local connection to “the day the music died”.

Our son and his family live about 6 miles east of us. Yesterday, we all went to a very nice park not far from where he lives. It is named the Ebonee Moody Park, in honor of a 14-year-old girl who was killed by a drunk driver in 2004, just across the street from where the park is now located.

Ebonee was a talented musician, and she played the piano, the saxophone, and several other instruments.

The man responsible for Ebonee’s death last August is 60-year-old Mike Ellsworth Baker.  He hit her while driving drunk and speeding.  Ten months later Baker is agreeing to felony charges of manslaughter, driving under the influence, reckless driving, and endangerment, along with a traffic violation of driving an unsafe vehicle.

 "It has been stated that he was drunk and driving, and we realize that there are so many loopholes in the justice system, and this way by a plea bargain, we know that he will do time in prison,” Moody said.

 Baker’s prison time is expected to last about ten and a half years, if not more, and be followed with about seven years of probation that will require him to take the anti-alcohol drug Antabuse.

 Also, Baker’s driver license will be suspended for five years.

 "You can't do the crime and just expect to get away.  You do the crime, you have to do the time,” Moody said.

 For the Moody family, their lives will be changed forever.  But now, Leonard Moody hopes his situation can at least be one more lesson for anyone who drinks and drives.

 https://www.kold.com/story/3499251/drunk-driver-pleads-guilty-to-manslaughter-of-14-year-old/

 Buddy Holly died in 1959 in Iowa in 1959 – but the music also died in Tucson in 2004 – and that is a lesson that Mike Baker (and the rest of us) learned more than a decade ago.

Thursday, November 23, 2023

the rich are different

 In 1925, Fitzgerald wrote a short story titled “The Rich Boy.” In 1926, it was published in Red Book magazine and included what became a very popular collection of Fitzgerald's early short stories, titled All the Sad Young Men.

The third paragraph of the story says:

"Let me tell you about the very rich. They are different from you and me. They possess and enjoy early, and it does something to them, makes them soft where we are hard, and cynical where we are trustful, in a way that, unless you were born rich, it is very difficult to understand. They think, deep in their hearts, that they are better than we are because we had to discover the compensations and refuges of life for ourselves. Even when they enter deep into our world or sink below us, they still think that they are better than we are. They are different."








F. Scott Fitzgerald was born into a middle class family in St. Paul, Minnesota in 1896. Although initially successful as a writer, the Great Depression made it difficult for his books to be sold. Even a move to Los Angeles did not improve his finances, leading to years of alcoholism. Eventually he recovered, but passed away in 1940 due to a heart attack, at the age of 44.

HIs best known novel is "The Great Gatsby", and it has been made into a movie twice, the most recent starring Robert Redford.

There is no shortage of books about the wealthier members of our society, but two of them are especially relevant - and they have an unusual connection.

The first book is "Vanderbilt :The Rise and Fall of an American Dynasty", which was written by Anderson Cooper. His mother was Gloria Vanderbilt, and she was the last Vanderbilt to live in "the Breakers" in Rhode Island. His book details the successes, and failures, of the greater Vanderbilt clan. 




I've been in the Biltmore estate in North Carolina, which was built by George Washington Vanderbilt in the closing years of the 19th century. At the time the 250 room home was built, he was in his 20's, and unmarried. Even today, it is still the largest single family home in America. Although it is no longer used as a residence, it is open for tours.





The other book is about the family of a man who was one of the richest men in America  - but few people have ever heard of him. His name is W.A. Clark, and his story can be found in "Empty Mansions", by Bill Dedman and Paul Clark Newell Jr.

Both Cornelius Vanderbilt and W.A. Clark owned railroads, but the "unusual connection" is to a ship.

One of the Vanderbilt family members was on the Titanic - and he went down with the shop.

W.A. Clark and his family had tickets  for the 2nd voyage of the Titanic. For obvious reasons, they never got to use them.

W.A.  Clark was married twice. After the death of his first wife, he married a much younger woman, who gave birth to two daughters. The oldest daughter (Andre) died of meningitis when she was 16, and her younger sister (Hugette) inherited a vast fortune.

(Because Andre loved girl scouts, her father established the first (and only) girl scout camp in the country in her honor)


Hugette was married briefly, but spent most of her life as a single woman.

Although she owned mansions in Santa Barbara and Connecticut (in addition to three apartments on 5th Avenue in New York), she spent the last twenty years of her life in a hospital room in New York City - even though she was in good health.

She lived in the Santa Barbara home only a short time, and she never lived in (or furnished) the Connecticut home. For most of her life, the apartments on 5th Avenue also were not used very much.

She was an avid collector of art and dolls, as well as jewelry. She also owned 6 very rare Stradivarius violins.

Throughout her life, she was very generous, and gave vast sums of money to a lengthy list of friends, some of whom she never met.  

She lived to be 106 years old, but was still very sharp mentally right until the end

W.A. Clark made most of his money from copper, but he also was a successful banker and a railroad owner. In addition, he was largely responsible for the establishment of Las Vegas, which is located in Clark county. 

"Empty Mansions" is a book worth reading - and it reaffirms the fact that the rich ARE different,