Thursday, November 20, 2025

How to talk to your children about sex

 

In her latest book (“Why Fascists fear Teachers”), Randi Weingarten mentions a book that some people have had banned. It is titled “It’s Perfectly Normal”, and it discussed the physical and emotional changes that teens and adolescents go through as they are growing up.

I recently borrowed the book from the library, and found it both educational and entertaining.

 


The book contains numerous drawings of male and female genitalia, and also discusses some controversial topics, such as abortion, birth control, STD, and sexual abuse. In at least one case, it helped prevent further sexual abuse of a girl whose father was sexually abusing her.

Before I go any further, I need to give you a little background:

I grew up during the 1950’s - a time when “Ozzie and Harriet” was on prime-time television, and it remained there from 1952 until 1966, The couple also had a radio program from 1944 until 1954. In all, the television series lasted 14 years, and can still be viewed on YouTube

The 1950’s were a conservative era, and public discussion about sex, if it occurred at all, was pretty rare. Married couples on TV were not seen in bed together, and discussions about sex, even in family units was also sparse.

Starting in 2021, there have been thousands of books banned or challenged in parts of the United States. Most of the targeted books have to do with racegender, and sexuality. Unlike most book challenges in the past, whereby action began locally with parents or other stakeholders in the community engaging teachers and school administrators in a debate over a title, local parent groups have received support from conservative advocacy organizations working to nationalize the efforts focused on certain subjects. They have also been more likely to involve legal and legislative measures rather than just conversations in local communities. Journalists, academics, librarians, and others commonly link the coordinated, often well-funded book challenges to other efforts to restrict what students should learn about systemic bias and the history of the United States. Hundreds of books have been challenged, including high-profile examples like Maus by Art SpiegelmanNew Kid by Jerry Craft, and The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood.

The American Library Association documented 1,269 demands of book censorship in 2022. It was the highest the organization had ever recorded since it began collecting censorship data more than 20 years prior. A 2023 analysis by The Washington Post found that a majority of book challenges in over 100 school districts from the 2021–2022 school year were filed by just 11 people

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Book_banning_in_the_United_States_(2021%E2%80%93present)

One of the books that had been banned is “It’s perfectly Normal”.

 The exact number of times “It's Perfectly Normal”has been banned is not available, but it has been removed from libraries and schools multiple times, making it one of the most frequently challenged books in recent years. It was removed from libraries in Florida's Walton County School District and has been pulled from school shelves at least seven times in one recent school year alone, according to CBS News. 

  • It's Perfectly Normal is a children's book about puberty and sex education by Robie Harris.
  • The book has been challenged and removed from school libraries and classrooms due to its frank discussions about sexuality.
  • It appears on lists of frequently challenged books, such as those compiled by the American Library Association.
  • The reasons cited for banning often include its content being considered "unsuited to age group" or due to its religious viewpoint. 

 

Not surprisingly, Florida is the state that has had the most books ban. As of 2022, the state had the most book bans in place, and Texas was in second place, with 625 book bans. Florida’s dubious record is due to the fact that the ultra-conservate group, Moms for Liberty, is based there.

https://worldpopulationreview.com/state-rankings/banned-books-by-state

 

Moms for Liberty is an American political organization that advocates against school curricula that mention LGBTQ rightsrace and ethnicitycritical race theory, and discrimination. Multiple chapters have also campaigned to ban books that address gender and sexuality from school libraries. Founded in January 2021, the group began by campaigning against COVID-19 responses in schools such as mask and vaccine mandates. Moms for Liberty is influential within the Republican Party.

Moms for Liberty has been variously described as populistreactionaryextremist, and far-right group. The group has been criticized for harassment, for deepening divisions among parents, for making students' education more difficult, and for having close ties to the Republican Party rather than being a genuine grassroots effort

Moms for Liberty was co-founded in Florida on January 1, 2021, by former school board members Tina Descovich and Tiffany Justice, and by then-current school board member Bridget Ziegler, the wife of Florida Republican Party Chairman Christian Ziegler. In spring 2021, Christian Ziegler was removed from his position in the party because of a sexual assault history. Republican activist and campaign consultant Marie Rogerson is the third-leading member of Moms for Liberty. Descovich receives a stipendas Moms for Liberty's executive director.

Like fascists everywhere, Governor DeSantis does not like an educated public, and his treatment of New College of Florida provides a good summary of his approach.

 https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2025/11/19/new-college-florida-desantis-makeover-cost/

Nearly three years ago, as Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis championed his culture-war policies during the run-up to a bid for the White House, he vowed to overhaul a small, quirky liberal arts college in Sarasota that was part of the state education system.

New College of Florida was “more into DEI, CRT, the gender ideology,” the Republican governor said, using abbreviations for diversity, equity and inclusion and for critical race theory. He added: “We’re going to be able to offer some reforms.”

DeSantis has largely succeeded in transforming what was one of the most liberal institutions in the state into a school that is now hailed by conservatives across the country. He handpicked a new president and appointed a board of trustees who fired and denied tenure to veteran professors. The school closed its gender studies center. It added sports teams and turned classrooms in a historic campus building into donor-friendly spaces with cigar smoking allowed on the balcony overlooking Sarasota Bay.

 Now the bill for that effort has arrived, and it shows a remarkably high price. According to a report released this month by the Florida Department of Government Efficiency (DOGE), the cost to produce a degree at New College is $494,715 — the highest among public colleges in Florida and more than three times the $150,729 cost at the state’s flagship school, the University of Florida.

Operating expenses at New College are $83,207 per student, compared with $45,765 at UF. New College also has the largest number of administrators per student, or 33.3 per 100, compared with 26.9 at UF, a school with nearly 62,000 students.

Enrollment has increased since the overhaul, but with 732 current students, New College is still short of the school’s stated goal of 1,200. More than a third of the new students are athletes recruited to fill recently created collegiate sports teams, including baseball, basketball and softball.

One of the new trustees DeSantis appointed was Christopher Rufo, the conservative activist who has led campaigns against critical race theory and gender identity in schools and has advised DeSantis on education policy.

 

The DeSantis administration pledged to model New College after Hillsdale College, a private Christian school in Michigan. New College adopted what it calls a “classical” curriculum centered on the Western canon. Freshmen are required to take a class on Homer’s “Odyssey.”

 

(Hillsdale College  is a member of the advisory board of Project 2025, a collection of conservative and right-wing policy proposals from The Heritage Foundation to reshape the United States federal government and consolidate executive power, since Trump won the 2024 presidential election.)

 

Attorney Alan Dershowitz, a staunch supporter of President Donald Trump, spoke at New College’s commencement in May. Corcoran announced in September that the school is commissioning a statue of slain conservative activist Charlie Kirk for the campus, to be funded by public donation

 But, let’s get back to the book>

For parents who are not comfortable discussing sex with their children, and for kids who simply do not know what questions to ask, this book can be a valuable resource.

 

 

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