Both of my parents grew up on farms near the city of Hastings,
Minnesota.
The Brennan homestead stayed in the family until the
mid-1960’s, when my dad's younger brother sold the farm and moved to Forest Lake, Minnesota.
The Stenson farm has a much longer history.
After renting a small home near what is now Highway 61, Martin
Stenson and his young bride, Amelia, had saved up enough money to buy a home of
their home. The house that they settled on, located on what used to be Rural
Route 3, was built in 1896.
They borrowed some money from a relative, and moved in sometime in the fall of 1929 - just before the stock market crashed. Somehow, they managed to hang onto the farm during the Depression years, and Martin and Amelia stayed in the home until the early 1960’s, when they moved into an apartment on Vermillion Street in Hastings.
At that point, Martin transferred ownership of the farm to his
son Harold, who worked for a seed and feed company in downtown Hastings.
https://tohell-andback.blogspot.com/2009/10/voice-from-grave.html
A few years after moving into the farm, Harold’s first wife,
Bernie, died suddenly from a rare medical condition at the age of 27, leaving
Harold to raise 5 children. With help from his sisters, he raised some great
kids, and he prospered.
When he was in his 60’s, he met a woman named Bernie Kimmes at
a local restaurant. At that point, she was a widow with six children, and the
children from bath families got along well. So well, in fact, that his daughter
Kay, and her son Willie, eventually got married. Since they liked to do things
in style, they got married on a sailing ship in the Caribbean in 2002, and a
bunch of us celebrated with them at my cousin Pat’s place in Minnetrista
shortly after the wedding.
Harold and Bernie developed a strong relationship, and they
got married when Harold was 65 years old. They remained married until 2005,
when Bernie passed away at the age of 80.
https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/twincities/name/bernardine-stenson-obituary?pid=3335615
Starting sometime in the 1960’s, the Stenson clan started a
tradition of having Christmas on the farm, and the tradition persevered for a
number of years. When the Stenson and the Kimmes families merged, the logistics
of all those people in an enclosed space became problematic, so the celebration
shifted to July, and it became Christmas in July. The new tradition lasted
until 2013 or 2014, which is when Harold moved to a senior facility in
Hastings. After Harold passed on in 2017, at the age of 95, Christmas in July
went dormant for a few years.
The COVID pandemic dashed any hopes of getting together again
in 2020, but the dream still had not died.
In March of this year, I got an invitation from my cousin Jon,
who owns a farm in Hudson, and he announced that he wanted to host this year’s
Christmas in July. Since Sharon and I live about 1500 miles from Hudson, we
knew that we would not be able to attend. However, since I had been using Zoom
to teach classes for most of the school year, I decided that connecting with
Zoom would be workable. Sometime in May, I set up a Zoom meeting, and sent the
coordinates to my cousins.
On the morning of July 2, I started the meeting, and anxiously
waited for the arrival of my cousins – who did not show up.
Apparently, the folks in Minnesota had difficulty getting into
my Zoom meeting, but one of my cousins had set up a meeting of their own – and
it worked. As a result, I was able to talk with a variety of my cousins for
about 90 minutes, and I was also able to take a brief tour of Jon’s farm.
The old farm stayed in the family until the fall of 2018, when
the house and 5 acres of land were sold. Wisely, the Stenson children kept the
reaming acreage to avoid paying capital gains taxes, so the Stenson legacy at
the place lives on, even though the Stensons no longer live there.
https://www.redfin.com/MN/Hastings/11851-Neal-Ave-S-55033/home/146253084
Will there be another Christmas in July celebration next year? Time will tell, but I sure hope so. It was a LOT of fun chatting with cousins that I had not seen for YEARS.