Tuesday, May 31, 2022

And what is so rare as a day in June?

 


Most of us learned this poem when we were in high school, but would have trouble reciting it beyond the opening lines. In case you’re curious, here’s the entire poem:

 

And what is so rare as a day in June?
Then, if ever, come perfect days;
Then Heaven tries earth if it be in tune,

And over it softly her warm ear lays:
Whether we look, or whether we listen,
We hear life murmur, or see it glisten;
Every clod feels a stir of might,
An instinct within it that reaches and towers,
And, groping blindly above it for light,
Climbs to a soul in grass and flowers;
The flush of life may well be seen
Thrilling back over hills and valleys;
The cowslip starlets in meadows green,
The buttercup catches the sun in its chalice,
And there's never a leaf nor a blade too mean
To be some happy creature's palace;
The little bird sits at his door in the sun,
Atilt like a blossom among the leaves,
And lets his illumined being o'errun
With the deluge of summer it receives;
His mate feels the eggs beneath her wings,
And the heart in her dumb breast flutters and sings;
He sings to the wide world, and she to her nest,--
In the nice ear of Nature which song is the best?

Now is the high-tide of the year,
And whatever of life hath ebbed away
Comes flooding back with a ripply cheer,
Into every bare inlet and creek and bay;
Now the heart is so full that a drop overfills it,
We are happy now because God wills it;
No matter how barren the past may have been,
'Tis enough for us now that the leaves are green;
We sit in the warm shade and feel right well
How the sap creeps up and the blossoms swell;
We may shut our eyes but we cannot help knowing
That skies are clear and grass is growing;
The breeze comes whispering in our ear,
That dandelions are blossoming near,
That maize has sprouted, that streams are flowing,
That the river is bluer than the sky,
That the robin is plastering his house hard by;
And if the breeze kept the good news back,

For our couriers we should not lack;
We could guess it all by yon heifer's lowing,--
And hark! how clear bold chanticleer,
Warmed with the new wine of the year,
Tells all in his lusty crowing!

Joy comes, grief goes, we know not how;
Everything is happy now,
Everything is upward striving;
'Tis as easy now for the heart to be true
As for grass to be green or skies to be blue,--
'Tis for the natural way of living:

Who knows whither the clouds have fled?
In the unscarred heaven they leave no wake,
And the eyes forget the tears they have shed,
The heart forgets its sorrow and ache;
The soul partakes the season's youth,
And the sulphurous rifts of passion and woe
Lie deep 'neath a silence pure and smooth,
Like burnt-out craters healed with snow.

 

https://www.poetrynook.com/poem/what-so-rare-day-june


Unless you’re an English scholar, you aren’t going to know the name of the author, but his influence went far beyond his work as a poet.




James Russell Lowell (/ˈloʊəl/; February 22, 1819 – August 12, 1891) was an American Romantic poet, critic, editor, and diplomat. He is associated with the fireside poets, a group of New England writers who were among the first American poets that rivaled the popularity of British poets. These writers usually used conventional forms and meters in their poetry, making them suitable for families entertaining at their fireside.

Lowell graduated from Harvard College in 1838, despite his reputation as a troublemaker, and went on to earn a law degree from Harvard Law School. He published his first collection of poetry in 1841 and married Maria White in 1844. The couple had several children, though only one survived past childhood.

He became involved in the movement to abolish slavery, with Lowell using poetry to express his anti-slavery views and taking a job in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, as the editor of an abolitionist newspaper. After moving back to Cambridge, Lowell was one of the founders of a journal called The Pioneer, which lasted only three issues. He gained notoriety in 1848 with the publication of A Fable for Critics, a book-length poem satirizing contemporary critics and poets. The same year, he published The Biglow Papers, which increased his fame. He went on to publish several other poetry collections and essay collections throughout his literary career.

Maria died in 1853, and Lowell accepted a professorship of languages at Harvard in 1854. He traveled to Europe before officially assuming his teaching duties in 1856, and married Frances Dunlap shortly thereafter in 1857. That year, Lowell also became editor of The Atlantic Monthly. He continued to teach at Harvard for twenty years.

He received his first political appointment, the ambassadorship to the Kingdom of Spain 20 years later. He was later appointed ambassador to the Court of St. James's. He spent his last years in Cambridge in the same estate where he was born, and died there in 1891.

Lowell believed that the poet played an important role as a prophet and critic of society. He used poetry for reform, particularly in abolitionism. However, his commitment to the anti-slavery cause wavered over the years, as did his opinion on African-Americans. He attempted to emulate the true Yankee accent in the dialogue of his characters, particularly in The Biglow Papers. This depiction of the dialect, as well as his many satires, was an inspiration to writers such as Mark Twain and H. L. Mencken.

 

What I found interesting about the man is that he was influential in the elimination of slavery, he was an early editor of The Atlantic Monthly, a publication that was started in 1857 (and is still in print today), and he believed that poetry played an important role as a prophet and critic of society.

It wasn’t until 1961 that a poet did a reading during a presidential inauguration, and there have only been 5 since that time. All of them performed for Democratic presidents.

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Russell_Lowell

 

https://www.writersdigest.com/write-better-poetry/who-are-the-inaugural-poets-for-united-states-presidents


Although I’ve composed some poems at the request of my students, I would not consider myself a poet, and I couldn’t tell you the last time that I read a book of poetry.

 

Traditionally, the hottest day of the year in Tucson is June 29, and we have seen temperatures as high as 116 degrees on that date. However, on the day that Hell froze over (January 31, 2019, in Hell. Michigan) the weather was pretty nice in Tucson.

https://www.newsweek.com/hell-frozen-michigan-polar-vortex-extreme-weather-cold-ice-snow-1313082

 

This year, the summer solstice falls on June 21, and the weather in Tucson will no longer be described as “pretty nice”- but that won’t keep me from enjoying the days off from school.

 

 




Monday, May 30, 2022

Think and Grow Rich

 

Think and Grow Rich is a book written by Napoleon Hill in 1937 and promoted as a personal development and self-improvement book. He claimed to be inspired by a suggestion from business magnate and later-philanthropist Andrew Carnegie.

First published during the Great Depression, the book has sold more than 15 million copies.

It remains the biggest seller of Napoleon Hill's books. BusinessWeek magazine's Best-Seller List ranked it the sixth best-selling paperback business book 70 years after it was published. Think and Grow Rich is listed in John C. Maxwell's A Lifetime "Must Read" Books List.

While the book's title and much of the writing concerns increasing income, the author proclaims that his philosophy can help people succeed in any line of work, to do and be anything they can imagine.

Think and Grow Rich is based on Hill's earlier work The Law of Success, and is the result of more than twenty years of study of many individuals who had amassed personal fortunes. Hill studied their habits and drew some 16 "laws" to be applied to achieve success. Think and Grow Rich condenses them, providing the reader with 14 principles in the form of a "Philosophy of Achievement".

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Think_and_Grow_Rich

I first read the book in 1969, when I worked as a life insurance salesman for Northwestern National Life Insurance Company in 1969, and I’ve re-read a few times since. More than 10 years ago, I gave a copy to our son Brian for Christmas.

Although I’ve read hundreds of books in my lifetime, this one is undoubtedly the one that had the most longest lasting impact.

After working at a couple of different jobs after graduating from college, I eventually wound up working in the insurance business as a commercial lines underwriter. A few years into that career, I learned about a program called CPCU, which is an acronym for Chartered Property and Casualty Underwriter, and it is roughly the equivalent of a CPA for an accountant.

The CPCU program is a 5-year course. Apart from the fact that the designation will likely get you promoted (it did) the other reward is that you and your significant other get a free trip to whatever location is holding the convention that year. When I learned that the 1980 convention was in Hawaii, I decided that I was going to complete the 5-year program in 4 years – and I did it. In October of 1980, we put out young kids in the care of their paternal grandparents, and spent a week in Hawaii. Apart from the swimsuit incident, it was a marvelous vacation, and it will always rank as one of our best vacations.

Inspired by the book, Sharon and I tried out a number of business ventures, independent of our regular jobs. Although none of them made us rich, our attempts could be summed up by the line that Clint Eastwood said in “The Bridges of Madison Country”:

“I’m glad I had my dreams. They didn’t always work out the way that I wanted, but I’m glad I had them anyway”.

After I was promoted and transferred to Wisconsin in 1981 (my reward for earning the CPCU degree) I joined Toastmasters International in order to get comfortable with public speaking. In my 25 years with the organization, I won dozens of speaking trophies, and in 1993, I was voted the District Toastmaster of the Year, the only one of 3000 people that year to earn that honor.

My final 4 years in the property/casualty industry were spent with the CIGNA Insurance Company. Shortly after starting with the company, I started putting 10% of my income into their 401-K program, and was on track to have $1,000,000 in the bank and a house that was paid for by the time I was 65.

Life, of course, had other plans.

My property/casualty career ended when I was 51, and subsequent jobs paid far less than I was earning, which is why I am still working as I approach my 75th birthday.

The optimism and can-do attitude that Sharon and I developed eventually rubbed off on our kids.

Brian was an indifferent student in high school, which is why it took him 5 years to graduate. When he finally graduated from college at the age 34, he graduated magna cum laude. After moving to Tucson 3 years later, he started his own company, a ride-share firm that he called FLUX. It was his primary source of income for a few years – until it wasn’t. After a few years of trying a few other things, he followed in his dad’s footsteps, and became a substitute teacher. Now married with a couple of adorable kids, he is doing well, but he still dabbles in his dreams also. He may never become a millionaire by being a day trader – but he keeps trying.

Our daughter got good grades in high school, and managed to graduate in 4 years. She attended college in Michigan for a couple of years, but eventually decided to interrupt her college career to pursue an adventure. At the age of 22, he moved to China to become a college professor, even though she would not get her own degree until nearly 10 years later, and she and Brian graduated from college the same year.

She eventually moved to Arizona to pursue her dream of being a nurse, and her mom and dad tagged along. She completed an accelerated program in nursing, and earned her master’s degree in the summer of 2018. After working for a few years in Arizona, she and her hubby moved to Colorado, where she is now a charge nurse at a medical facility near Durango.    

Although I’m proud of our family’s accomplishments, I’m equally impressed by what I woman named Amanda Peet has accomplished.

At the age of 29. Peet started running. Her first run — on a treadmill — was only 15 minutes. But she found it exhilarating. She signed up for a few races and added biking and swimming to her workouts to train for triathlons. In early 2013, Peet noticed that her right index finger couldn’t fully extend while she swam. She began struggling to put on her biking gloves, and would inexplicably fall sometimes. Her husband David noticed her speech was becoming difficult to understand.

In November of that year, she ran a 7.9-mile relay leg of the City of Oaks marathon in Raleigh, N.C. But her body wouldn’t cooperate. She had to walk all of the downhill sections to keep from falling.

It was the last footrace she would run.

Peet assumed her symptoms were due to some sort of injury, so she scheduled an appointment with a physical therapist. Two months later, she visited a Georgetown University neurologist who performed various screenings. He initially ruled out A.L.S.

For the next several months, doctors and specialists were unable to pinpoint a diagnosis. Peet’s physical condition worsened. She started using a cane to walk, then two walking sticks and a walker.

In August 2014, a Johns Hopkins neurologist confirmed what she and David had suspected: Peet had A.L.S. Life expectancy for someone with A.L.S. is two to five years, and there is no cure. She was 33.

Peet was frustrated she had spent close to a year of that life expectancy trying to figure out what was wrong. Now, she had one thought: “I have no more time to waste.”

Several months prior, Peet had signed up for a fall sprint triathlon with a friend, Julie Wesner. She could still swim, albeit slowly, and she could walk with assistance. But since she couldn’t balance on a bike anymore, she called Wesner to cancel. Instead, Wesner asked if she had looked into a recumbent trike. Peet bought one the next weekend.

They would do the race together. Peet used two trekking poles for balance during the running portion. Her toes curled, her feet dragged, and her knees locked with every step. Wesner held her arm the entire time. They were the last two finishers, greeted by a crowd of spectators who had waited almost an hour to cheer for the duo.

“It changed everything,” Peet said. She described the race atmosphere as “a laser filled with the very best of humanity, aimed directly at me.”

She decided to keep racing, as long as her body would allow her. She established a daily workout routine — pool exercises, Pilates training, weight lifting, and trike rides — to stay active.

 

In October 2016, she started her own nonprofit, the Team Drea Foundation, to raise awareness and funds toward A.L.S. research.

Peet surpassed the average A.L.S. life expectancy in the summer of 2019.

In doing so, she realized that she was tired of waiting for the disease to kill her. So Peet brainstormed the biggest, most daunting challenge she could try: to become the first person with A.L.S. to complete 50 marathons in 50 states.

 

By early March 2020, Peet had completed 17 marathons in 17 states, with the help of a rotating cast of family and friends. She and David were scheduled to fly to California for her 18th marathon on March 20, 2020. But the pandemic intruded, and races were abruptly postponed, then canceled altogether.

When a few marathons reopened in August, Peet found a series of three races in Idaho, Utah, and Wyoming scheduled to be held over three consecutive days. She and David packed their car and drove west from their home in Raleigh.

By the end of 2020, she was halfway to her goal.

Peet does not know her own life expectancy. But she does know how she wants to spend her remaining days: raising awareness and money for A.L.S. research (to date, Team Drea has raised $850,000), writing a memoir, filming a full-length documentary about her journey and racing.

Peet’s final 50-in-50 race (she will have completed 52 marathons by then) was on Prince of Wales Island, in Alaska, on Saturday.


You may never accomplish the things that our family accomplished, or even come close to what Amanda Peet accomplished, but never forget the words that Napoleon Hill put down on paper more than 80 years ago.

You can do and be anything they can imagine.

 

 

https://www.nytimes.com/2022/05/28/sports/als-marathons-andrea-peet.html

 

 

 




Sunday, May 22, 2022

Do parents know what’s best for their kids?

 

    

 

Garry Trudeau summed up one of the problems that teachers face today in the Doonesbury strip of May 22, 2022.

He mentions parent-activist Linda Tarr, but there is no such person. However, there ARE people who would be considered to be parent-activists, and they are a real problem for teachers.

 https://www.gocomics.com/doonesbury/2022/05/22

 Ideally, education of our children should be a partnership between parents and teachers. Parents have the responsibility to provide learning opportunities for their kids, and teachers build on that.

In 2021, the FOX network mentioned the phrase “critical race theory” more than 2000 times. Due to its large audience, it attracted the attention of conservatives who needed social issues to attract votes.

In his 2022 State of the State address, Governor Doug Ducey said that we needed more critical thinking, and less critical race theory in our schools. He also said we need to focus less on masks, and more on math.

Critical thinking, of course, comes from being exposed to a wide variety of ideas, but the book bans proposed by Florida and other states does exactly the opposite.

Adjusting for population, there have been a total of 303 COVID-19-related deaths for every 100,000 Americans nationwide. In Arizona, deaths attributable to the coronavirus per capita are even more common than they are nationwide. Across the state, 30,189 people have died from the coronavirus, equal to about 421 deaths for every 100,000 people. Of all states -- and Washington D.C. -- Arizona has the highest death rate per capita.

There have been over 1 million deaths attributed to COVID-19 in the United States -- and that number continues to grow every day.

At the peak of the pandemic, schools resorted to remote learning in order to minimize the spread of COVID. When infection rates started to trend down, most schools mandated that masks needed to be worn by students, teachers, and visitors.

The Federal government provided funding to the states in order to fight the pandemic – but not all governors used that money wisely

Governor Ducey threated to withhold funding to schools that imposed mask mandates, a position that is patently illegal.

https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/medical/this-is-how-many-people-have-died-from-covid-19-in-arizona/ar-AAXhTxr

You won’t find a lot of discussion about parent-activists in mainstream media, but conservative newsletter Washington Examiner published an opinion piece in January of this year.

Here’s some of the main ideas:

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In the early hours of Nov. 3, Republican Glenn Youngkin, now the governor-elect of the commonwealth of Virginia, took to the stage at his campaign election night watch party to promise a conservative renewal in governance in a state that had moved to the left in recent years.

Youngkin’s victory over former governor and Democratic nominee Terry McAuliffe was an unexpected upset and amounted to a political earthquake in a state that had voted for President Joe Biden by a double-digit margin the year prior, and it took place in Washington, D.C.’s backyard.

Youngkin’s victory, on a platform featuring a vow to empower parents in public education, proved to be the culminating achievement of a parental rights movement that was visible in Virginia but also swept across the nation to Texas, Minnesota, Colorado, and everywhere in between.

From the refusal of numerous schools to reopen following the pandemic closures, the inclusion of critical race theory and gender ideology in school curricula, the fight over mask mandates, and the Loudoun County public school rape case, a wide breadth of issues pertaining to education motivated a new kind of voter, turning the Virginia race into an unexpected referendum on public education.

In addition to Youngkin’s Virginia victory, conservative and Republican-backed candidates ousted incumbents in school board elections all over the nation, ushering in a new wave of candidates whose vows to keep schools open with no mask mandates and to ban critical race theory proved to be a winning message.

But the most visible aspect of the parental activist movement, and a defining image of local politics in 2021, was the use of public comment periods at school board meetings.

https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/policy/2021-the-year-of-the-parent-activist

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Although I agree that parents should be involved with the education of their children, the new era of the parent-activist has taken a dangerous turn.

In June of 2021, a man was arrested at a school board meeting in Virginia for disorderly conduct, and there have been arrests in other states as well.

In Tucson last week, a 46-year-old woman stormed into her son’s classroom and attacked her son’s teacher. When she picked up a chair to hit the teacher, she also hit a 13-year-old student. She now faces three felony charges.

https://news.yahoo.com/man-arrested-school-board-meeting-190011578.html?fr=yhssrp_catchall

 

Although parents should have the right to voice their opinion at school board meetings, there HAVE been cases where school board members have received death threats, which prompted the National School Board Association (in October of 2021) to ask the Biden administration for immediate assistance … to protect our students, school board members, and educators who are susceptible to acts of violence affecting interstate commerce because of threats to their districts, families, and personal safety.”

 The anger over CRT and mask mandates has little to do with either topic.

It’s all about getting votes.

Once upon a time, school boards were sleepy backwaters of local government, where concerned community members volunteered their time to debate things like budgets and calendars.

Those days seem long, long ago.

The change began with the coronavirus pandemic. For more than a year, angry parents have crowded meetings to shout down mask mandates or remote learning.

Now, the conversation has turned toward race, specifically fears that school boards are introducing critical race theory to the curriculum. Some conservative activists and politicians are using these worries to drive school board recalls and to rally their voters in statewide elections.

In 2021, Ballotpedia, a nonpartisan political encyclopedia, said it had tracked 80 such efforts against 207 board members. That’s the highest number since it began tracking in 2010. The parents then run for the seats, and often win.

Republicans see school board races as a way to take back white suburban districts, which have shifted toward the Democrats in the past eight years. In Wisconsin, a pivotal swing state that President Biden won by just over 20,600 votes, critical race theory could be an important swing issue.

 https://www.nytimes.com/2021/10/27/us/the-conservative-school-board-strategy.html

 Recent efforts to attract votes include that banning of numerous math books in Florida and the banning of certain books. Florida’s reasoning is that they feel that they include references to Critical Race Theory.

https://www.nbcmiami.com/news/local/florida-gives-examples-after-math-books-rejected-for-crt-other-issues/2742102/

Tennessee recently banned “Maus” “due to concerns about profanity and an image of female nudity in its depiction of Polish Jews who survived the Holocaust,”CNBC reports.

 The Tucson MSA, Arizona, and the U.S. all have similar K-12 attendance rates for public versus private schools. In 2020, of the school-age children attending school in the U.S., 89.1% attended public schools while 10.9% attended private schools. The public-school attendance rate was slightly higher for Tucson (89.7%) and Arizona (91.2%).

Although both parents and students benefit from public education, the greatest benefit is to society as a whole. However, many of our public officials don’t like public schools, which is why they keep trying to expand the voucher program. 24% of the schools in Arizona are charter schools – and they are not as highly regulated as public schools

https://mapazdashboard.arizona.edu/education/prek-12-enrollment#:~:text=In%202020%2C%20of%20the%20school-age%20children%20attending%20school,charter%20school%20in%20the%20U.S.%20opened%20in%201992.

Beyond public and charter schools, parents also have the option of home schooling or private education.

Regulations on home schooling vary by states, but only schools in the Northeast have strict regulations. Some states have no regulations at all.

For they parents who want a more religious, or a more conservative curricula, private schools are also available- but they are expensive.

 My Catholic grade school in Minnesota charges over $5000 a year per student for parishioners, and nearly $7000 a year for non-parishioners.

 https://www.saintpaschal.net/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/Kindergarten-Grade-8-Tuition-Rates-2022-2023.pdf

There WAS a time when the public school system was considered to be the best in the world – but that is no longer true.

One big difference is how its teachers are treated. In Finland and South Korea, teachers are held in the same regard as doctors.

https://tohell-andback.blogspot.com/2016/12/are-finns-really-smarter-than-us.html

Nationwide, starting teacher salaries range from a high of over $50,000 to a low of $32,000 , In Arizona, the starting salary for a teacher is $39,057, which is why 33% of the teaching positions in the state are not filled.

If you lived in Seattle, you can make the same salary working at Dick’s Drive-In, and you would not have to grade papers OR attend school board meetings.




 https://study.com/academy/popular/teacher-salary-by-state.html

The big difference in states is the  MAXIMUM salary in that state. In Arizona, that number if $63,000, but 11 states have maximum salaries in excess of $80,000.


Turning Point Action, which organized Trump’s visit to Phoenix in July of 2021 is actively involved in remaking school boards to its liking. It operated Students for Trump in the 2020 election.

https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/politics/thousands-attend-phoenix-rally-featuring-former-president-donald-trump/ar-AAMxVDg

Turning Point Action was started by a young man named Charlie Kirk in July of 2019.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Turning_Point_Action

Although things look bleak for education in this country, there ARE some things that we can do to make it better.

If you have the stomach for it, run for an open school board seat. The other option, of course, is to vote for people who believe in public education. School boards DO need to listen to the views of parents, but they still need to do the right thing for the students – and that’s not always going to be popular with parents.

 

 




Monday, May 16, 2022

when the saints come marching in

 

"When the Saints Go Marching In", often referred to as simply "The Saints", is a black spiritual. Though it originated as a Christian hymn, it is often played by jazz bands. This song was famously recorded on May 13, 1938, by Louis Armstrong and his orchestra.

 Louis Armstrong - When The Saints Go Marching In - YouTube

 Feel free to sing along with Louis

 Since I was raised as a Catholic, I knew that the Catholic church had a lot of saints.

So, how many saints are there?

In general, the range of answers to this question is between 1,000 and 8,000 saints. However, this may not include the vast number of saints that have been canonized in the past few decades.

For example, St. John Paul II canonized 482 saints, Pope Benedict XVI canonized 45 saints and Pope Francis has alone canonized 893 saints. These numbers are often high on account of “mass” canonizations, such as the canonization of 800 Italian martyrs by Pope Francis in 2013.

On the other hand, most people agree that the number of “saints” is impossible to calculate, as the term can also refer to all those people currently in Heaven.

 https://aleteia.org/2019/07/19/how-many-catholic-saints-are-there/

 One of the saints that you probably have never heard of is Saint Dymphna, who was mentioned briefly in Jennifer Haigh’s recent novel, “Mercy Street’. One of the characters in the book, an anti-abortion activist, attends the church of Saint Dymphna on a regular basis.

 According to Catholic and Orthodox tradition, Dymphna was born in Ireland in the 7th century. Dymphna's father Damon was a petty king of Oriel. Her mother was a devout Christian.

When Dymphna was 14 years old, she consecrated herself to Christ and took a vow of chastity. Shortly thereafter, her mother died. Damon had loved his wife deeply, and in the aftermath of her death his mental health sharply deteriorated. Eventually the king's counsellors pressed him to remarry. Damon agreed, but only on the condition that his bride would be as beautiful as his deceased wife. After searching fruitlessly, Damon began to desire his daughter because of her strong resemblance to her mother.

 


 

Martyrdom of St Dymphna and St Gerebernus by Jacques de l'Ange

When Dymphna learned of her father's intentions, she swore to uphold her vows and fled his court along with her confessor Father Gerebernus, two trusted servants, and the king's fool. Together they sailed towards the continent, eventually landing in what is present-day Belgium, where they took refuge in the town of Gheel.

One tradition states that once settled in Geel, Dymphna built a hospice for the poor and sick of the region. However, it was through the use of her wealth that her father would eventually ascertain her whereabouts, as some of the coins used enabled her father to trace them to Belgium. Damon sent his agents to pursue his daughter and her companions. When their hiding place was discovered, Damon travelled to Geel to recover his daughter. Damon ordered his soldiers to kill Gerebernus and tried to force Dymphna to return with him to Ireland, but she resisted. Furious, Damon drew his sword and struck off his daughter's head. She was said to have been 15 years old when she died. After Dymphna and Gerebernus were killed, the residents of Geel buried them in a nearby cave. Years later, they decided to move the remains to a more suitable location.

Dymphna is the patron saint of mental illness. According to some sources, Dymphna is also the patron saint of incest victims due to her refusal (and for it, her beheading) to allow her father to have an incestuous relationship with her.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dymphna

Why is she relevant today?

The Des Moines Register is considered to be one of the most neutral American newspapers. Like many other newspapers, the paper feels that the logic used by Samuel Alito in the recent leaked document is deeply flawed.

https://www.desmoinesregister.com/story/opinion/columnists/iowa-view/2022/05/15/alito-abortion-opinion-errs-repeatedly/9666859002/

 

In anticipation of Roe V. Wade being overturned, a number of states have passed restrictive laws. The worst state is Texas, which not only does not permit abortions after six weeks, but also allows ordinary citizens to become vigilantes. Arizona recently passed a law that prohibits abortions after 15 weeks. More importantly, it does not allow any exception for rape or incest, which is blatantly unfair. Beyond the fact that Saint Dymphna is the patron saint of incest victims, there is legally that can be done to protect them.

Regardless of how you feel about Roe V. Wade, here’s a fact to consider.

In many states, you must be 25 years old to adopt a child, but Virginia allows women who are at least 18 to adopt. The logic being that woman younger than that are not mentally or financially able to raise a child.

The best way to prevent abortions is (1) comprehensive sex education and (2) easy access to birth control. The states that have the highest rate of teen pregnancy (New Mexico, Texas, and Mississippi) don’t have either. As a result, a large number of young women in those states are forced into lives of poverty because that do not have job skills or financial means to support a child.

https://adoption.com/how-old-do-you-have-to-be-to-adopt

Although it’s likely that the Supreme Court will modify Roe V Wade in June, but I hope that the court is smart enough not to adopt Alito’s opinion unless it is made to be less restrictive.

In the current issue of the National Catholic Reporter, a pro-live contributor named Rebecca Bratten Weiss explains why overturning Roe V. Wade would not be a pro-life win. Although I could summarize if for you, I’d recommend reading the entire article.

https://www.ncronline.org/news/opinion/overturning-roe-would-not-be-pro-life-win

As a society, we’re faced with a wide variety of problems, and our political parties seem to be constantly at war with each other. We could all pray to the saints to help us with our problems, but there is a better way.

Vote.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 




Friday, May 13, 2022

A brother's love

 

Gino Cappelletti sat in the radio booth at the New Orleans Superdome on Feb. 3, 2002, alongside longtime broadcasting partner Gil Santos and watched Adam Vinatieri kick a 48-yard field goal as time ran out to give the New England Patriots their first Super Bowl championship.

Since then, the New England Patriots have won 4 more Super Bowls, and have been in 5 other Super Bowls where they came in 2nd.

Mr. Cappelletti, an original Boston Patriot in 1960 who kicked 176 field goals during an 11-season career with the team, stood in the booth after the 20-17 victory over the St. Louis Rams and reflected.

“I looked at the numbers on the players’ jerseys and I was speechless as I recalled the players on our 1960 team who wore those same numbers,” Mr. Cappelletti told the Globe in 2016. “I thought of how they must have been feeling and how elated they would be.

“It all paid off, didn’t it?”

Mr. Cappelletti, whose own number 20 was retired by the Patriots and who is enshrined in the American Football League and the Patriots Halls of Fame, died Thursday (May 12, 2022). He was 89 and resided in Wellesley.

https://www.bostonglobe.com/2022/05/12/sports/gino-cappelletti-patriots-obituary/?s_campaign=breakingnews:newsletter

Like me, he was a graduate of the University of Minnesota.

If the name Cappelletti sounds familiar, here’s why:

John Cappelletti (born August 9, 1952) is a former American football running back. He played professionally in the National Football League (NFL) with the Los Angeles Rams and the San Diego Chargers.

Prior to his professional career, he attended Penn State, where he won the Heisman Trophy in 1973. He was inducted into the College Football Hall of Fame in 1993. Penn State football coach Joe Paterno said that Cappelletti was "the best football player I ever coached." Cappelletti's relationship with his younger brother Joey, who was stricken with leukemia, was chronicled into a book and made-for-TV movie, which was titled “Something for Joey”.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Something_for_Joey

At the Heisman Trophy Award ceremony, John Cappelletti gave the trophy to his younger brother Joey, who eventually died in April of 1976 at the age of 13.

When it came time for the priest to give the invocation at the ceremony, he said, “we don’t need a prayer, since we have been blessed by John Cappelletti.

Gino Cappelletti is no relation to John Cappelletti.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Cappelletti#:~:text=John%20Cappelletti%20(born,TV%20movie.

The big screen, of course, has produced numerous movies that discuss the love of a brother for another brother.

One of the more entertaining ones was the 2000 remake of “Gone in 60 Seconds”, which starred Nicholas Cage.

Gone In 60 Seconds |2000| All Eleanor Pursuit Scenes [Edited] - YouTube

Car thief Kip Raines works with his gang to steal fifty high-end cars for Raymond Calitri, a British gangster in Long Beach, California. After stealing a Porsche 996 from a showroom, Kip unwittingly leads the police to his crew's warehouse, forcing the thieves to flee. Detectives Castlebeck and Drycoff impound the stolen cars and open an investigation. Atley Jackson, Calitri's associate, reaches out to Kip's older brother Randall "Memphis" Raines, a notorious but reformed car thief. Memphis meets with Calitri, who has kidnapped Kip and intends to kill him in a car crusher. Memphis agrees to steal the fifty cars within 72 hours, and Kip is released; Calitri warns that if the cars are not delivered on time, Kip will be killed.

Memphis visits his mentor Otto Halliwell and they assemble a crew of old associates: Donny Astricky, now a driving instructor; Sphinx, a mute mortician; and Sara "Sway" Wayland, a mechanic and bartender. Kip and his crew volunteer to help, and the group tracks down the cars, giving each a code name; Memphis insists on saving a 1967 Ford Shelby GT500, dubbed "Eleanor"— which he has attempted to steal before —for last. While scouting the cars, he and Kip narrowly avoid being killed by a rival gang. Hoping to deliver the cars before they can be traced, the crew plans to steal all fifty cars in one night.

 

In the film, Memphis Raines agrees to go back to stealing cars again because of the love for his brother, Kip.

Apart from the movies, there are times when even men who are not related can develop bonds as strong as brothers.

 

In 1978, Dire Straits released a song titled, “Brothers in Arms”

 

Dire Straits - Brothers In Arms - YouTube

 

https://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/direstraits/brothersinarms.html

  

In brief, it described the bond that forms between men who serve in the military together.

This comment to the video says it all:

 Davy Shepherd

Davy Shepherd

 

8 months ago

 

I am 32 years old now. I was merely 21 when I was deployed to Afghanistan. Next to me sat a younger boy named Alex. He was only 19. Alex was an orphan, just another lost soul sent to fight for a country that never cared for neither him, neither any soul it sent to its doom. Alex and I began nervously talking and before the plane landed, we were inseparable. We became the closest of friends over the course of our time in Afghanistan, we had to learn to kill and accept death. It wasn't easy, nothing was, but at least, in the middle of all the crap that went on, we had formed a friendship, a friendship so strong I dare say it was almost a brotherhood. I loved Alex both as a friend and as the younger brother I never had - and apparently was never meant to have. I felt responsible for him, felt like I had to teach him things I didn't even know myself. Most of all I cared for that boy more than I cared for myself. Alex died 11 years ago today. He dove on an Afghan grenade, saving my life and 12 others. Born a zero and died a fucking hero. The word "hero" is the least I can say to describe him. But they didn't talk about him on TV, they didn't give him a medal and they just forgot about him. Just another lost soul never finding its way. I was sent home a little after all that. A taxi took me from the airport and took me back to my family. This is the first song that played on the taxi ride. Needless to say, I burst out crying right then and there. I had lost people in my life, but nothing hurt more than the loss of Alex. Thinking about it years later, I believe that this song playing on the radio was a signal from Alex up in the sky, telling me that he finally found his peace beside God, and telling me not to worry about him and go on with my life. Anyway, wherever you are, Alex, I miss you, my brother in arms... RIP Alex 09/09/2010.

 Band of Brothers is a 2001 American war drama miniseries based on historian Stephen E. Ambrose's 1992 non-fiction book of the same name. It was created by Steven Spielberg and Tom Hanks, who also served as executive producers, and who had collaborated on the 1998 World War II film Saving Private Ryan. Episodes first aired on HBO, starting on September 9, 2001. The series won Emmy and Golden Globe awards in 2001 for best miniseries.


The series dramatizes the history of "Easy" Company, 2nd Battalion, 506th Parachute Infantry Regiment, of the 101st Airborne Division, from jump training in the United States through its participation in major actions in Europe, up until Japan's capitulation and the end of World War II. The events are based on Ambrose's research and recorded interviews with Easy Company veterans. The series took some literary license, adapting history for dramatic effect and series structure. The characters portrayed are based on members of Easy Company. Excerpts from interviews with some of the survivors are used as preludes to the episodes, but they are not identified by name until the end of the finale.

The title of the book and series comes from the St Crispin's Day Speech in William Shakespeare's play Henry V, delivered by King Henry before the Battle of Agincourt. Ambrose quotes a passage from the speech on his book's first page; this passage is spoken by Carwood Lipton in the series finale.

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Band_of_Brothers_(miniseries)

 

I’ve visited the Vietnam Veterans Memorial Wall in Washington, D.C. On that wall are the names of relatives, former classmates, and former neighbors. Although I DID join the National Guard, I never saw combat, but the men that I mentioned above did.

We are not related, but all of them are my brothers – and I’ll be thinking of them on May 30.

Rest in Peace.